It turns out that there are at least two legal lesbian marriages
in America. Not civil unions in Vermont, mind, but fully-fledged bona
fide marriage. And they’re in Texas!
This fact emerges from an article
in the New York Times today about a man in Kansas who’s trying
to stop his late father’s bride from inheriting half his wealth, on
the grounds that she isn’t a woman. (She’s a male-to-female transsexual.)
Fast-forward to the fifth paragraph:
Since marriage is seen as a fundamental right, several
legal experts said that if transsexuals like Mrs. Gardiner were barred
from marrying men, they would probably be allowed to marry women.
Indeed, after a Texas court invalidated a similar marriage in 1999,
at least two male-to-female transsexuals have married women in that
state.
Having spent a bit of time among transsexuals in New York, I can
definitely say that lesbianism is really quite common among male-to-female
transsexuals. I wouldn’t want to start speculating why, but I have
a feeling that it reflects a much greater than usual openness towards
gender fluidity in that community.
Obviously, the fact that there are two legal gay marriages in Texas
is no great victory for gay rights: most biological women are extremely
unlikely to find love with a male-to-female transsexual, and it’s
unfair that they’re the only ones allowed to marry other women.
But all the same, it’s worth stopping to savor the irony of a judicial
decision directed against transsexual marriage being the instrument
by which gay marriage in the US finally became a reality.
Being a lesbian I think homosexual marriage should be allowed but only in some states because in some states there are more prejudice people who are against gay marriage. Heterosexuals are always saying that gay people spread AIDS. But if they let us marry wouldn’t that lower the risk? That is, if we were the actual cause…which the happy, committed, faithful homosexuals are not. We value our relationship and its faithfullness and dedication just as a straight person would.
I just recently got engaged to a female partner in my life and i need to know if you could help with information to where we could legally be united.
To Whom May It Concern:
Hi! My name is Diana and I was very interested in the article “Legal lesbian marriages in Texas. I am doing a research paper for my English 1301 class, but that isn’t the only reason that made me interested in the article, also I am a lesbian. I wanted to talk also about my personal views on being “Legal”. I am aware that Hawii and Vermont are the only states that a lesbian couple can get the union ceremony legally. I think that is not fair for Texas Gays and Lesbians to get treated like the aren’t part of the same society as Vermont. To make a long story short do you have any more information regarding the legalized lesbian couple that is married in Texas? Or do think that you can tell me the city that the couples live in or something of the sort. I am only wanting to know the information so that I can get more information. Until then, have a nice day!
Diana
i was just wondering what steps i would have to take in order for me to marry. if anyone could help me out contact me. i’m kind of new to the whole marriage thing but not new to the lesbian thing so basicly i just need some advice on what i can do to get started i live in missouri and i know its not legal here but are there any states that are legal??? that advice would greatly appreciated as well as any web address i can go to ok bye
I just recently got purposed to and we are now thinking about marriage. I have read up on some states legalizing lesbian marriages. I was just needing some help where it is legal in Texas for a couple to get marriage, so if you know any info, please e-mail me at would be greatly appreciated, Thank You!!
I just recently got purposed to by a female and we are now thinking about marriage. I have read up on some states legalizing lesbian marriages. I was just needing some help where it is legal in Texas for a couple to get marriage, so if you know any info, please e-mail me, it would be greatly appreciated, Thank You!!
I just recently got purposed to by a female and we are now thinking about marriage. We are wanting to get married in Texas. I really don’t know what town where it would be legal, so we really need your help. So if you know any info, please let me know it would be greatly appreciated, Thank You!!
I need as much information as possible. Is lesbian marriage legal in Texas? Will it be recognized in other states? Can I change my last name?
i am getting merried to my gf and i was woundering if u could email me about where we can get married and stuff
i hate the fact of gay marriage but i believe in a sense of a gay union.
I’AM HAPPY IN LOVE WITH OTHER FEMALE AND I WAS WONDERING WHERE WE CAN GO GET MARRIAED AT SOME ONE PLEASE EMAIL ME AND LET ME KNOW SOON AS POSSIBLE.
i have been with my girlfriend who is my fiancee going on 5 yrs now. we live in the state of florida and we want to make our marriage official. we need help in finding a place to get married. if anyone can help me out please feel free to email me with as much info as u can. thanks alot.
hey yall i knoe people come on herre to ask question but shit i have a few…i want to propose to my girl and shyt I wanna knoe were close we can get united u knoe im from detroit and she from new orleans and i stay in louisiana so shyt if u can help me find a place or have any information holla at ur girl k-wayta and it will be helpful…ans what about her having a baby for me shyt were the were do we go for that matter also…..thanks
Are they going to legalize lesbian marriages in the united states? I have set a wedding date with my girlfriend of October 2 2004. Do you think things will be changed by then? Please feel free to email me.
I need to know if I can marry my partner that I have been with for a year now. Can anyone tell me if a lesbian marriage is legal in Texas. If so how do I go about this.
I am a lesbian who has recently proposed to my gf and I was wondering if it was legal in Texas to get married and if not then where can we go that will be legal as well as recognized as legal? If you have any info please get back to me asap. Thanks!
I need a list of all the places its legal to marry my girlfriend. Please email with the info.
Thank You
hi! im from philippines… i have a gf and both our families are against our relationship.. when i happen to search the web, i found out that we could get married..but were still young…can we get settled in texas at the age of 17? and can u tell me where the location was…i’d be happy if anyone will help me …
I have been engaged to the woman of my life for almost 2 years now and we would love to make it official. Please e-mail me and let me know where this would be possible.
MY FIANCE AND I WOULD LIKE TO LEGALLY GET MARRIED. HER AND I WOULD ALSO LIKE MY SON TO HAVE OUR LAST NAME. IS THERE ANYWHERE CLOSE TO MICHIGAN? CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP US IN THIS MATTER? WE WOULD LIKE TO BE MARRIED IN THE EYES OF “GOD”. PLEASE HELP US!!!!!!!!!!
Me and my girlfiend have been together almost a year and are ready to get married, we live in Texas and everyone said that it cant happen here, if you know any info in getting married in Texas please email me and let me know….
thank you
I have known my fiance for 4 years now and we live in oklahoma. Is there a state real close that we can be wed legally? please e-mail me and let me know.
ok well im bisexual and im really looking to get info on homosexual marriages.right now im in a relationship with a female and things are really working out and marriage looks like a possibility but i have no clue where its legal and how it all works so i would greatly appreciate some info like a list or something of where all homosexual marriage is legal and how it all works..thanks for your time
~Erica~
I think they should be able to do what they want. It should be there decision and there a lone. No one should be able to stop them. I mean don’t you all think they have it hard enough just living with what they are each and ever day of there lives with out people trying to stop them from being together. Man just let them be!
I recently got engaged on December the 19th of 2003 to the woman of my life. If anyone has any information about where we can get married, it would be a great help. I’ve been reading about this and I’m still a little unsure about where it is and where it is Not legal. Just e-mail me if you have any information, thanks bunches!
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I recently fell in love with my girlfriend of only a few weeks, but want to marry her. If anyone knows of a good location that it is legal I would appreciate the advice. Please email any suggestions. Thank you.
I am madly in love with a female who I have known all my life. Her and I have been together for a while and in the near future I want to marry her. I feel like no one should have anything bad to say about gay/lesbian marriages because that’s the persons marital preference about whom they wanna be with. They are entitled to be with whomever they wish. I am for gay/lesbian marriages. Love is blind and has no prejudices or barriers. So if there is anyone out there who wants to marry someone of the same gender but is afraid of what others may think I say go for it because you have to spend the rest of your life with that person, not them and if that person makes you happy like my woman makes me happy then live your life the way you want to because no one else is going to live it for you. Good luck to everyone planning on getting married to someone of the same gender. I hope it works out for you.
This female and I has been together for a year and 5 1/2 months. We argue often like normal couples do, but we still love each other and still will cut for each other. We always talk about how would it be if we were really married. I hope if we stay together through thick anad thin, than we one day will get married. I love her very much and I try to make her very happy each day. We only have one concern, who will have who last name. If you love someone of the same gender, go ahead and ask them to marry you before it’s to late. This goes out to Atari Terrell Guidry,I love you very much, and I hope one day we will reach our goal in getting married!!!
My girlfriend and I are looking to get married soon. We only remember of 3 states where gay and lesbian marriage is legal. Like Hawaii, Vermont, and California. I am almost positive there were other states. If so and you know of any states a little closer to Florida where we live please email me. Thank you!
Love,
Caroline
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Danielle
I need to find out where I can obtain a marriage license for a lesbian marriage. If someone could email me I’d appreciate it.
I think that gay people should be allowed to get married anywhere. it is their own personal freedom to do as they please. i am not gay but i do feel that the homosexual communnity should be free too.
Wondering where in Texas can we get married? I heard that there was a place in Padre Island that gave civil union. Just can’t find! PLEASE HELP!!!
I want a nice lady to married.
where can a lesbian couple get married at in the usa
I think lesbian marriages should be legal everywhere. I have been with the love of my life for 2 1/2 years. And we have had our problems believe me. But she has stuck by me throught it all and now we are about to share a baby together. whether they make same-sex marriages legal or not she will always be my wife and the love of my life. So legal or not legal it doesn’t change the fact of who I love and who I am.
Me and my girlfriend have been engaged for almost 2 years and we need to know where we can go to get married we live in Royal Oak, MI.
Hi,
I was requesting information on where it is legal for same sex marriages. My girlfriend and I are in the state of New York, and we will find this information very beneficial. Thank you!
Hi, I am 24years old and me and my girlfriend have been together for over 3 years and we want to get married.We have 3 beautiful sons that look up to us and love us dearly.I would like some info as to where we can go and get married.We reside in houston,tx.
I am with a person that was born with both parts. His family raised him as a girl. Now we are fighting to get things fixed. I would like to know where in the united states you can get married.
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I CAN SEE PEOPLE ASK THE SAME THING I WANT TO KNOW. WHERE CAN MY GIRL AND I GET MARRIED.
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i recently got engaged to my girlfriend last month and were planning a wedding next year can you tell me where it is legally recognized.
i recently got engaged to my girlfriend last month and were planning a wedding next year can you tell me where it is legally recognized.
I think Gay/Lesbian people are disgusting! I am SO NOT A LESBIAN I’m happily with a man! not a woman / I mean seriously who would wanna marry somebody of the same gender. That is just gross, but if some people like the way they are I wouldn’t interfeer. If they are in love you can’t seperate them.
me and my girlfriend have been together for 3yrs and would like some info were to get married we live in texas and texas sucks so if you can email me that would be great thanks and let me know a good place close